Indian Summer
17 Jan 2010 Leave a Comment
in TheRealParents Reality Tags: fun, fun with kids, kids, parenting, parents, park
Today was a bit of Indian summer here in chilly New Jersey. I guess low 40′s in the winter counts for that! We would love to move somewhere warm again! Especially me! I think being a “snow bird” is the best of both worlds, go south for the winter, and come back for the spring, summer and fall… Wish that was possible, but unless we home school, that won’t work with their schedule.
We took the trio to the park today to celebrate the “warm” weather. Took some fun video’s you can see at http://www.TheRealParents.com.
It was a fun day, and inexpensive too. The park by us is huge, so with three kids I can’t go alone, Mikey came along. the kids spread out too much to keep track of alone. Out numbered! Hope it gets warmer very, very soon!
Sandy & Mike Quast
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Mud face masks…
08 Dec 2009 Leave a Comment
in TheRealParents Reality Tags: beauty, beauty salon, children, face mask, facial, fun, fun with kids, mud mask, play with kids, quast, therealparents, vetter
Mike and I had a great time this last weekend at “Hannah’s Salon” getting mud mask facials. Hannah is our 7-year-old, who loves all things beauty. I’m a bit of a tom boy myself, but that’s okay.
First I gave her a facial with face cleanser, a hot towel and then moisturizer, then hot towel again, then green mountain clay mask. She loved it.
Of course I was not going to get off that easily, as she wanted to do me too. Okay, she was neat, but then she wanted to do daddy’s face…
Mike is such a trooper with those things, I made a video of him getting his face done, see it on our website at http://www.TheRealParents.com. It’s pretty funny.
Could she get anymore mask on his face??
Best, Sandy (& Mike Q) www.TheRealParents.com
Fun Turkey day family trip…
02 Dec 2009 Leave a Comment
in TheRealParents Reality, Travel Tips Tags: bickering, funny, humorous, marriage, quast, reality, reality travel, relationships, the real parents, therealparents.com, travel with kids, vetter
We had a fun turkey day trip to see Aunt Jess and Uncle Marc and 30+ other family and friends in sunny PA.
We had a great trip, the ride there was crazy as usual, lots of bickering between Mike and I. We usually don’t get along on route to our journey’s, kinda like brothers and sisters… Been together too long… See the reality video with the kiddies at http://TheRealParents.tumblr.com. You can subscribe to our video blog there if you are amused…
Working on writing a speech for my Toastmasters club we go to once a month. Tomorrow is my 7th speech, “research your topic” so I am doing the Swine Flu H1N1 as my topic.
Better listen up, I did the research, you can benefit… DON’T get the vaccine til you listen! I’ll post the video of the recorded speech on Thursday on the video blog above. Hasta manana, back to speech writing. Hope all had a great Turkey Day!
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Sandy (& Mike ) Hosts www.theRealParents.com
OMG, I thought the other dentist day was bad…
24 Nov 2009 1 Comment
in TheRealParents Reality, Vaccine & Health Info Tags: dentist, dentist nightmare, kids dentristy, novicane, pediatric dentist, sedation dentist
I’ve never had a worse experience at the pediatric dentist as this past Saturday, yes Saturday! My poor son Ryan is only 5, and his back molar tooth was hurting bad, so he woke up at night crying. We gave him baby motrin, and he did go back to sleep.
But what are we supposed to do now, the last dental appt did not touch that tooth, his mouth is full with issues! (His sisters isn’t much better). I scheduled him an emergency Sat appt, and was thinking it would be good to just get it taken care of.
I went in, brought my Kid’s Stuff coupon book to brouse through and find a fun activity to do afterwards with the family, and to take his mind off being at the dentist. His appt was 2:00. After we arrived, they were running late, no biggie, they have video games there, Pac Man… and Ryan loves them. This is one reason he liked the new dentist. We’ll that thought was surely short lived.
When he went in, she said he needed a baby root canal (pulbodimy?) I think she called it? And the tooth right next to it, a cavity or potential root canal too? She said no problem, we’ll take care of them both now.
Ok I thought, one less trip and one less novicane needle to have to go through. He picked Vanilla sweet air, and then was ok for his needle, a bit swirmy, but ok. I thought, ok great the worst is over. Boy was I WRONG!
The Doc started to work on the back molar, and he started screaming! I said what’s the problem? He doesn’t feel anything right? She said, (while holding him down from kicking and screaming), oh, yeah, he has a HOT tooth and then she gave him another shot right into his exposed nerve, and he hollared, crying with dripping tears and saying for me to help him!
I am sick even thinking about it now. He from then on, he did not stop going absoulutly crazy, the nerve novicane did nothing buy torture him! I think he would have been more comfortable if she was sawing him arm off!
She said, with a tooth like this, the novicane doen’t really work. I said, then okay, were outta here…but he was still going balistic even when she wasn’t touching him. I think he was just anticipating the pain, and he had NEVER had an experience at the dentist like this (we were both caught off guard).
I told her to pull the tooth if that would help him, just anything to stop his pain,… she said she couldn’t, and an oral surgeon would have too. Her assistant called 3 and no one was there on the weekend.
I said for her to get the brackets out of his mouth because this was too much. She said I can’t the root is exposed, then she said she could squirt this gell on the nerve and kill it. She had already put cotton in his mouth and he wanted nothing to do with her getting the antiseptic swab out, I told him I would do it, I was beside myself, and he was still screaming!
Finally we got the brackets out of his mouth, and she put the gel on the tooth and a quick VERY quick temp white cavity filling. I thought once she put the nerve gel on, he would be okay, but NO he began yelling it’s cold, make it stop mommy…
This is after she was all done with the little she got done. She said that’s all I can do if he won’t stay still for the root canal. Of course he won’t would you??
Apparently a HOT tooth, is an infected one that usually has the patient on antibiotics for 3 days prior, would have been nice if she had told me before she started anything. He was MUCH better before his visit, wish I knew. I am tramitized still, and he is. The ENTIRE 30 minute ride home, he kept begging me to make the cold stop, “mommy please, help me…please I can’t stop crying…it hurts, please help me” as I’m practically driving off the road in panic.
The dentist told me to give him the Tylenol with Codine prescription I got over the phone the day before to hold him over. She also gave him the antibiotic he needed BEFORE the appt prescription to be picked up. Poor Ryan, had to wait 30 minutes in EXCRUCIATING pain for me to get home, to get any pain relief! I thought about making a stop at the ER cause that’s how much pain he was in, but then headed home for the medicine.
Luckily after we got home, I gave him the medicine, and he just wanted to lay in his bed. Finally he fell asleep, THANK GOD! When he was sleeping, I called an oral surgeon, thinking that he was in this much pain with double novicane, I don’t even want to know how he’ll feel when that wears off! The oral surgeon called the on-call surgeon and was supposed to call me right back. NO CALL DID I GET UNTIL MONDAY!
THANK GOD, when he awoke, he felt better, perhaps the nerve died? I don’t want to take him back to find out. We stayed home the rest of the day, so much for a fun family day!
P.S. As you can guess, I am despirately seeking a Sedation Dentist, the kind you get the pill or drink 30 minutes prior to work, and they can do hours of dental work in one day, without the patient even knowing. CAN ANYONE RECOMMEND A SEDATION DENTIST IN NEW JERSEY?? (NOT JUST NITRIS OXIDE, WE NEED THE BIG DOGS!) That is our next stop cause he will NEVER go back with good reason to a regular dentist!
Oh, what a fun day, taking 2 kids to the dentist…ugh!
18 Nov 2009 3 Comments
in TheRealParents Reality Tags: dentist, dentistry, kids dentist, reality, sandy vetter quast, therealparents, vetter
Yesterday was fun, Ryan had a 9:30 dentist appt, Hanah a 10:00. The old nasty dentist says he needs 4 baby root canals, and 2 cavities at age 5! Thought that was bad, Hannah needs the same at age 7! So much for giving the kids juice and water. I guess we have the genes of deep grooved teeth, aren’t they lucky. Take one look into Mike’s mouth and their is not one tooth without a filling!..
We had to switch dentists cause the old barbaric one hates her job for one, and as a pediatric dentist, also happens to hate kids! Sucks to be her, she needs to get another job. Not only that, but just about EVERY time we go there, she makes us wait over TWO hours with 3 small kids in a waiting room, with the kids cringing even longer!
Not sure why we didn’t switch a while ago. New dentist was so nice, had sweet choc smelling air to help with the novicane shot. He said forget 4 root canals each, Han needs 2 teeth pulled, and then 1 root canal, and Ry one pulled and then 2 root canals. Yesterday he did a cap on Ryan’s and Han had her other cavity done. Also, BIG plus, no mercury cavities here! The last dentist wanted to charge us $400 extra for white fillings each! What a swindler! Really pays to shop around.
We’ll just uploaded my first “reality” video, kinda goofy, no other people but me, but I was testing out my remedial editing skills…check it out at our video blog at http://TheRealParents.tumblr.com and subscribe to see the latest video’s as they come out.
Best, Sandy (& Mike)
A bike ride and a jog…
16 Nov 2009 Leave a Comment
in TheRealParents Reality Tags: bike, biking, fun kid activities, fun with kids, parent, parents, run, running, stay at home mom
FINALLY a nice day in NJ. 68 and sunny, what more can you ask for in November? We decided to take the kids out for a bike ride, it’s been forever it seems. We rode up the the High School, and then jogged and raced each other on the track.
Wow, Hannah Bananna blew me away, she’s so fast for a seven yearl old! Anyway, a few tears from her, I think she had a cramp, and little Colin also. He loves to run, anywhere, just keeps running. Think he’ll be a track star, can if he wants.
Han started back into her competitive Cheerleading on Wed last week. She’s so excited. Ryan will start basketball this friday eve, I volunteered Mike to coach. Should be fun, Mike did a great job coaching kindergarten soccer a few weeks ago at the Boys and Girls Club.
Onto bed for me, 2 kids and a dentist tomorrow morning, first thing! Should I have a glass of wine now, to calm my nerves?
Best, Sandy (& Mike) ** see our video blog at: http://TheRealParents.tubmlr.com

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